The Art of Suffering Well
There's something about the season of Lent that grows my love for Jesus exponentially. Maybe it's because of the hope it brings. He...
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Kate Ferrill
Feb 22, 20232 min read
In an Instant—Everything Changed.
I was taking a walk on the beach trying to figure out a way to provide for my family. I had homeschooled my children for 8 years and I...
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Kate Ferrill
Oct 19, 20223 min read
Is There a Way Out of Helplessness?
We are fresh off the heels of Hurricane Ian and I've felt a new sense of helplessness. The needs are just so...enormous. Every corner...
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Kyla Whipple
Jul 23, 20223 min read
Put it on Repeat
When you’ve experienced life with a destructive or addicted person for any length of time, the way they treat you and the unhealthy cycle...
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Kyla Whipple
Jun 11, 20223 min read
Deeper Healing
One of the joys of leaving an abusive relationship is getting to a place where you can begin to hope again. You can think to the future...
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Kate Ferrill
May 26, 20223 min read
How Do I Know if I'm Healing?
Let's face it. This healing stuff is hard work. In order to have true healing, you have to face memories and realities that you may have...
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Kate Ferrill
May 17, 20223 min read
How Do I Build My Confidence?
"Women consistently underestimate their own abilities." Sheryl Sandberg Did that just blow your mind like it did mine? Do you relate to...
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Kyla Whipple
May 9, 20222 min read
4 Ideas for Rediscovering You
After leaving an abusive relationship, it can feel overwhelming to begin to make your own decisions again. There might be uncertainty...
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Kate Ferrill
May 5, 20221 min read
Getting Your Emotional Power Back
Joy can feel like an uncomfortable emotion after we experience a destructive relationship. Our emotions have been controlled for so long...
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Kate Ferrill
Apr 21, 20223 min read
How Can Anger Possibly Help Me?
Discovering a betrayal or recognizing chronic abuse by a partner or family member has devastating effects. The pain and grief hit like...
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Kyla Whipple
Feb 18, 20222 min read
Grief in Destructive Relationships: How Do I Know it's Grief?
Grief is not limited to death. We can grieve with any loss. Loss of a job, a friend moves, when children change schools. Women...
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Kate Ferrill
Feb 17, 20223 min read
Why it's Normal to Feel Sad as You Leave a Destructive Relationship
Most women hope and expect to feel relief once they've made the decision to leave a relationship that is harming them emotionally or...
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Kate Ferrill
Jan 20, 20223 min read
A Beginners Guide to Boundaries
Setting boundaries isn't always natural to us. In fact, it can feel incredibly uncomfortable and unnatural to share our needs with...
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Kyla Whipple
Jan 12, 20222 min read
Is it My Responsibility to Help Him Change?
The short answer is no. Your job is to heal, set boundaries, share your needs, and find ways to be/feel safe. Many wives come to us...
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Kate Ferrill
Dec 15, 20213 min read
How to Leave Safely
Making the decision to walk away from your relationship or marriage is a gut wrenching decision in any context, but it is much more...
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Kyla Whipple
Dec 14, 20212 min read
Is it Abuse? 15 Questions to ask Yourself
As we share this month about things that can cause us to feel overwhelmed, one that’s at the top of the list for many women is coming to...
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Kate Ferrill
Nov 17, 20213 min read
How Fear is Used to Control Us
Have you ever thought of fear as a good thing? When fear creeps into my heart, I rush to quiet it. I pray and ask God to take it from me....
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Kyla Whipple
Nov 4, 20213 min read
Calming your Fears
Most of us can think of a time that we were afraid, and the fear felt overwhelming. I have experienced this with my health, my kids, and...
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Kate Ferrill
Oct 21, 20213 min read
Finding Your Voice Again
Being constantly criticized has a way of quieting us. When our words incite anger, coldness, or a harsh rebuke, we learn quickly that...
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Kyla Whipple
Oct 12, 20213 min read
A God of Protection, Power & Perseverance
I have often found God’s word to be most meaningful and encouraging when I feel lost or helpless. It has been a reminder of His goodness,...
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